logo
episode-header-image
Oct 2023
50m 19s

My Best Friend Left Me For My Ex

Unwell
About this episode

(Video podcast available on Spotify & YouTube) This week on Pretty Lonesome, Madeline talks about her ex best friend. She believes ex besties can be harder to get over than ex relationships, and discusses how hard it can be to forgive someone who you truly trusted. In her discussion of forgiveness, Madeline admits that forgiveness isn’t all that it’s cracked up to be. She feels that forgiveness should only serve the person who is giving it, not the person who is receiving it. While she has been in both positions, she admits that she would never encourage anyone to rush themselves into forgiving another person. After all, Madeline believes that forgiving too quickly can cause more hurt in the long run. Finally, Madeline shares her belief in manifestation and offers advice for those looking to find their own voice. She reveals that she often used to go on “hot girl walks”, saying manifestations out loud to herself while visualizing cutting physical ties with another person. Madeline is convinced that this method worked wonders with her ex and ex bestie. Join Madeline on Pretty Lonesome for a conversation on relationships, toxicity, forgiveness, manifestation, and finding your voice. Follow and connect with all things @PrettyLonesome across Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube.

 

Up next
Jul 4
1 mil subscribers + my ego
talking about how i got started on youtube and how weird of a time that was and how i found my team. and then about the ego and how I recently discovered that isn’t just a bad word to use for people with an inflated sense of self but actually an important and useful part of us al ... Show More
46m 43s
Jun 27
rambling about la
back in my habitat. 
43m 24s
Jun 20
brief thoughts on anarchism lol
I hate this episode because I missed almost every point I wanted to make about political amnesia / why having a clearer understanding of history creates a road map to facilitate the unity needed for social change which is so dumb of me (need to stop recording at midnight) so mayb ... Show More
37m 20s
Recommended Episodes
Oct 2023
He Cheated But I Love Him
(VIDEO PODCAST AVAILABLE ON SPOTIFY AND YOUTUBE) For the first time online, Alix shares the sad intricacies of her first heartbreak. She details the on and off relationship she shared with an older guy, referred to as “Chad”, and the mistakes they made along the way. She remember ... Show More
47m 41s
Jan 2024
Friendship Breakups
(VIDEO PODCAST AVAILABLE ON SPOTIFY AND YOUTUBE) This week, Alix sits down to talk about how she navigates friendship problems. She discusses girls hanging out with her exes, friends telling her secrets to other people, and girls taking unsolicited naked photos of her. Alix detai ... Show More
59m 24s
Dec 2022
195: How Do I Get Over Anger When My Ex Betrayed Me?
 Ever been betrayed by someone you love? How about having an ex start dating your best friend after putting you through a toxic relationship? It can be especially painful when you feel like someone has changed for the better...but only for their new partner AFTER you've already e ... Show More
29m 13s
Jun 2023
EP 25 my Hoyoo cut me out of her life
Hi angels, Welcome back to the oversharers podcast <3333 This week we discuss a scenario from one of our listeners who is confused if a guy is into her or simply leading her on. The second scenario is about a woman who is struggling with a difficult relationship with her mum. She ... Show More
46m 1s
Sep 2020
UNFLTRD THOUGHTS: Forgiveness
In our first "Unfltrd Thoughts", we talk about forgiveness. We dig deep into our own personal process when it comes to forgiving those who&apos;ve wronged us and moments that may signal conflicts that are yet unresolved. One of the hardest relationships to have is the one you sha ... Show More
5m 4s
Feb 2019
Gwyneth x Elena Brower: On Divorce and Self-Forgiveness
GP catches up with her old friend Elena Brower, yoga teacher and coauthor of Better Apart: The Radically Positive Way to Separate. They talk about their own divorces, relationship endings and beginnings, and transformations. Brower doesn’t believe it’s ever too late to “fix it.” ... Show More
39m 7s
May 2022
How To Stop Sabotaging Your Own Relationship Success
Jordana and Naomi are back for week two of the podcast and start things off with a convo about one of the most common sources of aggravation we all share: customer service. Why does the person on the other end of the phone get under our skin so often? Then they tackle the equally ... Show More
1h 17m
Dec 2019
Episode 7 - Forgive Others, Forgive Yourself
"Forgive yourself first, then forgive others," was an aphorism that professor Morrie Schwartz held dear, especially in his final days of life. In this week's episode of the Tuesday People podcast, "Tuesdays With Morrie" author, Mitch Albom, and his co-host and producer Lisa Goich ... Show More
39m 36s
Oct 2020
#30: How to Forgive Your Ex
Forgiveness is SUCH an important part of break up recovery. There is a time and a place to be angry and express that anger about your ex, but there needs to be a point where we look at those feelings from a different perspective so we can forgive and let go. In this episode I tal ... Show More
21m 12s