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Oct 2023
1h 16m

How To Waste Your Life & Never Be Happy ...

Impact Theory
About this episode

Prepare to dive deep into the intricate web of human psychology, trauma, and the essence of personal responsibility. 

Today, I’m joined by the insightful Dr. Paul Conti, a psychiatrist, consultant, and author who is adept at helping people untangle complex problems and find a path to healing. His book, Trauma: The Invisible Epidemic, examines the most recent research, clinical best practices, and dozens of real-life stories to present a deeper, richer, and more urgent view of trauma.

In this episode, Dr. Conti unravels the complexities of trauma, its lasting impact on our mental and emotional well-being, and the pivotal role of personal responsibility in our healing journey. He emphasizes the importance of acknowledging our traumas, understanding their origins, and taking proactive steps towards healing and self-awareness.

Join us as we explore the societal misconceptions surrounding trauma, the significance of human connections in our healing process, and how logic and emotion work to craft our narratives. 


SHOW NOTES:

0:07 | Mental Models and Personal Responsibility

11:40 | Overcoming the Shame Spiral

18:30 | Markers of Trauma

25:59 | Conceptualizing Trauma and the Power of Self-Belief

33:01 | Societal Gaps in Understanding Our Responses

49:09 | The Depth of Loneliness and Feeling "Dead" Inside

1:05:13 | Compassion in a Societal Context

1:15:00 | The Role of Meaning and Purpose in Trauma

1:41:30 | Building a Strong Sense of Self

2:15:00 | Generating a Shared Narrative 


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https://drpaulconti.com/ 


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