Everyone wants a healthy marriage. And all of us, if we could, would go back and prepare ourselves better for walking into marriage. On today's episode, we talk to Drew Boa (founder of Husband Material and a licensed PSAP) about the why, the how, and the benefits of getting healthy sexually before marriage.
Mar 10
453 - The Danger of Controlling Our Life by Controlling Other People
In this episode, Debby Flanagan dives into a common but often overlooked challenge in recovery: trying to control life by controlling other people. We explore how this pattern can undermine relationships, fuel relapse, and distract from personal growth. Debby outlines telltale si ... Show More
1h 4m
Mar 3
452 - Not Taking Full Responsibility for Wounding Those We Love
In this episode, we explore what it truly means to take full responsibility for the damage caused by addiction—and why minimizing, deflecting, or excusing that harm often keeps relapse close at hand. Joined by Eileen Fagan, we identify subtle signs of incomplete ownership, from d ... Show More
1h 1m
Apr 2025
What My Husband and I Actually Learned in Our First Year of Marriage
In this episode, we open up about what the first year and a half of marriage has really been like — and let’s just say, we’ve learned a lot — sometimes the hard way. We’re sharing the real and funny lessons God’s been teaching us, the mistakes we made (so maybe you can avoid them ... Show More
49m 14s
Jun 2025
Martha Higareda Howes: Opening Up About Our Journey To Marriage (Our Step-By-Step Process + A Huge SURPRISE!)
<p><a href="https://lewishowes.com/review" target="_blank">Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!</a></p><p>Most couples rush into marriage without building the foundation that actually matters, but Martha Higareda Howes, accompl ... Show More
2 h
May 2025
The Type of Guy to Marry and AVOID | Ft. Madi Prewett Troutt | Relationship Ready Ep. 1
Alright friends, this is the very first episode in my Relationship Ready series! Since I’m about to have our sweet baby (so wild!!), I’ll be re-sharing some of my most popular episodes all about relationships while I take a little break for maternity leave. And honestly, I couldn ... Show More
59m 37s
Jan 2025
What Your Wife Needs When You Relapse (with Tammy Gustafson)
<p>What does your wife need when you relapse into porn, unwanted sexual behavior, and breaking her trust? Tammy Gustafson explains what is going on inside your wife when you relapse, how you can helpful rather than hurtful, and why it's wise for your wife to have a relapse s ... Show More
25m 33s
Oct 2025
Jay’s Must-Listens: Marriage Isn’t About Finding “The One” (5 Truths Every Couple Needs to Hear Before Marriage!)
How do you know when you’re ready to commit? Do you think love alone is enough? Marriage isn’t a destination, it’s a daily practice. It’s the ongoing choice to show up, grow, and recommit to each other through every season of change. In this special compilation, Jay brings togeth ... Show More
53m 7s
Nov 2019
Introducing: Husband Material
Welcome to the Husband Material Podcast, where we help Christian men outgrow porn so you can change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship. My name is Drew Boa, and I'm here to show you how.Register now for the Husband Material Retreat in Georgia (April 24-27) at ... Show More
2m 25s
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I was pleasantly surprised when I listened to a podcast with James Sexton, a divorce lawyer who’s seen the ups and downs of couples for 25+ years in his career and has a lot of wisdom to share from it. </span></p>
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