On this Unfiltered, I'm joined by a woman who opens up about ending an eight-year relationship, during which, she felt like nothing was wrong but she wasn't truly happy. We discuss what finally led her to end the relationship and what it was like being single for the first time at 27. We discuss navigating career changes, solo traveling, and how she came to ... Show More
Jul 10
"From Roommates to Soulmates"
When Waverly Colville signed a lease with a stranger named John Guilyard in the summer of 2020, she never imagined she was also meeting her future partner. Two years of friendship, late-night talks, and dancing around their feelings later, one kiss changed everything. In this epi ... Show More
1h 4m
Jul 8
Why You’re Still Stalking Your Ex and What Actually Helps You Heal
Breakups today aren’t just about letting go of a person — they’re about navigating texts, timelines, algorithmic reminders, and the pressure to "heal fast." Therapist and Lonely Hearts Club founder Lexi Joondeph-Breidbart joins Ilana to unpack what actually helps people move on, ... Show More
56m 8s
Dec 2022
Advice For Better Relationships
Advice For Better RelationshipsWhen I first met my wife, Joi, I knew we would be married and live happily ever after. But there was a problem. Joi didn’t see it that way - at least not right away.If life has taught me anything, it’s that almost nobody is on the same page when the ... Show More
11m 46s
Jul 2023
105. The stigma of being single
Being single has never been more common, with more people being single than ever before in history. And yet, we still experience a great degree of social and internal stigma, and even shame, around our relationship status. From the comments of family or friends saying that "you'l ... Show More
39m 17s
Jan 2022
The Path All Relationships Follow
When I first met my wife, Joi, I knew we would be married and live happily ever after. But there was a problem. Joi didn’t see it that way - at least not right away.If life has taught me anything, it’s that almost nobody is on the same page when they first meet. We might be in t ... Show More
11m 13s
Jun 2023
Why Being Single Can Be Great.
📣 SINGLE LADIES! I hear you rolling your eyes saying "but Erika, I don't want to be single anymore! I want to find love..."
But hear me out Queen, on today's episode I am sharing some key reasons why you being single right now, can be great.
Obviously you may not want to stay si ... Show More
14m 59s
May 2023
#77: "How to enjoy being single when I really want a relationship?"
When you really want a relationship, enjoying being single can be something incredibly challenging. In today's Q&A style episode, I’m diving into how to enjoy being single when all you really want is a relationship.We'll cover:Owning your desire for a loving, healthy re ... Show More
15m 18s