On this Unfiltered, I'm joined by a woman who opens up about ending an eight-year relationship, during which, she felt like nothing was wrong but she wasn't truly happy. We discuss what finally led her to end the relationship and what it was like being single for the first time at 27. We discuss navigating career changes, solo traveling, and how she came to ... Show More
Aug 26
Is Everyone a Narcissist Now?
Just because someone ghosted you doesn’t mean they’re a narcissist. Ilana is joined by licensed therapist Carla Litto, LMFT, to unpack what actually makes someone a narcissist, what doesn’t, and why the term is being thrown around so loosely. They also talk about how to recognize ... Show More
55m 46s
Aug 21
“I Almost Let My Body Image Ruin Everything — Including My Wedding”
On this Unfiltered, an anonymous guest opens up about how body image struggles, weight gain, and health issues in her mid-to-late 20s held her back from enjoying life — and almost stopped her from celebrating her own wedding. From dreading engagement photos and dress shopping to ... Show More
52 m
Dec 2022
Advice For Better Relationships
Advice For Better RelationshipsWhen I first met my wife, Joi, I knew we would be married and live happily ever after. But there was a problem. Joi didn’t see it that way - at least not right away.If life has taught me anything, it’s that almost nobody is on the same page when the ... Show More
11m 46s
Jul 2023
105. The stigma of being single
Being single has never been more common, with more people being single than ever before in history. And yet, we still experience a great degree of social and internal stigma, and even shame, around our relationship status. From the comments of family or friends saying that "you'l ... Show More
39m 17s
Jan 2022
The Path All Relationships Follow
When I first met my wife, Joi, I knew we would be married and live happily ever after. But there was a problem. Joi didn’t see it that way - at least not right away.If life has taught me anything, it’s that almost nobody is on the same page when they first meet. We might be in t ... Show More
11m 13s
Jun 2023
Why Being Single Can Be Great.
📣 SINGLE LADIES! I hear you rolling your eyes saying "but Erika, I don't want to be single anymore! I want to find love..."
But hear me out Queen, on today's episode I am sharing some key reasons why you being single right now, can be great.
Obviously you may not want to stay si ... Show More
14m 59s
May 2023
#77: "How to enjoy being single when I really want a relationship?"
When you really want a relationship, enjoying being single can be something incredibly challenging. In today's Q&A style episode, I’m diving into how to enjoy being single when all you really want is a relationship.We'll cover:Owning your desire for a loving, healthy re ... Show More
15m 18s