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Sep 2023
1h 22m

DBT and Codependency

Michelle Henderson and Kate Sherman
About this episode

Kate and Michelle discuss what codependency is (and isn't), how it relates to borderline personality disorder and which DBT skills may help reduce codependency in relationships with others. 

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