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Sep 2023
56m 41s

How To Actually Move On with Tonya Carte...

Ilana Dunn
About this episode
I'm joined by Tonya Carter, Marriage/Relationship Exit Strategist, host of Purposely Thriving, and author of Divorce Your Story, to talk about how to effectively heal from a breakup. We discuss why your ex is a non-factor in your healing, the importance of acknowledging that the "what ifs" did not happen, and how to make peace with the closure you received. ... Show More
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