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Jul 2023
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#116 Avoidance Behaviour Anger and Anxie...

Abdul Shahid
About this episode

In this super informative episode, we dive into the causes of marital discord and the subsequent Avoidance Behaviour, Anger and Anxiety that come from this constant battle between husband and wife. 

 

What You’ll Learn in this Podcast:

 

1.   How to beat avoidance and build strong relationships.

2.   Empowerment through emotional leadership. 

3.   How to Cultivate a thriving marriage and family. 

 

 

Shift from Avoidance to Approval & Unity

 

Avoidance is a common tendency married couples have and it often becomes a breeding ground for unresolved anger and anxiety within marriages.

The longer you leave things, the more magnified the problem becomes. 

 

When it finally comes out from behind the curtains of denial & avoidance it impacts your whole family life, not just your marriage. 

 

Avoidance carries lasting consequences, with a rippling effect throughout your life.

 

 When issues remain unresolved, they become a ticking time bomb, ready to explode at any moment, and when this inevitable explosion happens, it doesn't only affect husband and wife relationship, it affects the entire family unit.

 

At the heart of any family structure lies the core relationship between husband and wife. 

 

This partnership is the foundation, the bedrock and build block for the entire family unit.

 

Mentioned on the Podcast:

·       Nafs Coaching School -  https://themuslimlifecoach.org/live/ 

·       FREE Mind Health and wellbeing training  https://themuslimlifecoach.org/pro/ 

·       Become a Certified Science of the Nafs Coach -  https://themuslimlifecoach.org/join-now/

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