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Aug 2023
13m 23s

Normalizing Insecurities and Relationshi...

Jessica Da Silva, LMFT
About this episode
In this episode, I share my experience with relationship anxiety in hopes of normalizing the ebbs and flows that naturally occur in relationships, especially those with insecure attachments. ——— Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com 
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