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Episode 270: How to Become the Main Character in Your Own Life | You don’t have to keep living a storyline written by old beliefs, family expectations, or past relationships. In this empowering, free-flowing episode, Shayla invites you to step into authorship of your own life and ... Show More

Episode 269: When You Ignore Red Flags for the Sake of Connection (Full Episode on Patreon) | This is a preview of a subscriber-only episode from Aligned Access, my sacred space on Patreon where we go deeper than ever before.In this bonus episode, I’m sharing the pattern I’ve not ... Show More

Episode 268: The Subtle Art of Staying in the Flow | After you’ve broken through limiting beliefs and felt that first rush of alignment, what comes next? In this empowering episode, Shayla explores the often-overlooked practice of staying in the flow; holding your frequency stead ... Show More

Welcome to the very first episode of our brand-new series, The In Between! In this episode, we’re diving into one of the biggest questions—how do you make friends as an adult? And not just any friends, but truly aligned friendships. We’ll also unpack how to navigate friendship br ... Show More

What’s holding you back from your best year yet? Today, I share the 10 things you need to stop doing in 2025 to create space for massive growth. From letting go of toxic relationships to breaking unhealthy habits, we’re focusing on clearing out the old so you can bring in the new ... Show More

Making friends as an adult can feel impossible—but it doesn’t have to be. In this episode, we’re getting real about the struggles of making friends in your twenties and breaking down exactly what you can do to build your dream friend group. From putting yourself out there to actu ... Show More

If you’ve ever told yourself, “Making friends is hard,” or “It only gets harder the older you get” — I’m here to lovingly call BS. I made a new friend recently (love you, Andrea!), and this is not a new thing for me. In today’s solo episode, I jam on what I’ve learned from living ... Show More

Navigating friendships in your twenties can come with many complications... from the challenge of forming new connections to the effort required to keep old ones. We dive into our own childhood experiences, how bullying has shaped the way we approach friendships as adults, and ho ... Show More

Want stronger relationships? It starts with understanding how to truly connect with your partner on their terms. Learn the 5 love languages and how to use them to build lasting intimacy and trust. Reveal the hidden patterns shaping your choices, habits, and success. Take my FREE ... Show More

Get ready to join me on a deep dive into the perfectionism trap in this episode. We're going to unpack where it all begins (often with our well-meaning parents), how it seeps into our relationships and work life, and most importantly, how we can liberate ourselves from its grasp. ... Show More

in this solo episode, i share some honest thoughts on my struggles recently to make meaningful friendships and I unpack the psychology behind our craving for a built-in social circle, why adulthood makes friendships feel so much harder, and what we can actually do to cultivate re ... Show More

Adult friendships, why are they so hard? Are we looking at it the wrong way? Is it us, or is it that we are surrounded by toxic people? And what about those "default" friends that have been around for so long but don't really align with us anymore, how do we navigate those? I had ... Show More

Today we're exploring how to surround yourself with the right people to transform your life. We'll cover how true friends should challenge you to grow, how to evaluate and choose friendships that inspire you, and the profound influence our surroundings have on our behaviors and m ... Show More