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Jul 2023
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22: How to Enjoy Life as Midlife Woman?

Anne Bland
About this episode

Is sex over when you hit 50? How can a middle-aged woman continue enjoying pleasure, to feel juicy and succulent? How to tackle the changing of a body, hair, emotions, home, relationship, and even temperature? And what is a middle-aged woman called after the Maiden and the Mother and before the Crone? Anne Bland is joined by Australian Lisa Tösher who is ready to hibernate in her seasonal winter whereas Anne is enjoying the Finnish midsummer.

Curiosity, acceptance, celebration, and exploration are invited to make friends with the changes, spiced up with a healthy sense of humour and the expression of a "No", "Yes", and a "Maybe."

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