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Sep 11

13 Subtle Ways to Make Him Want You More | Rewind

There are small things we do in the early stages of dating that can have a surprisingly big impact on how someone sees us, and on the kind of relationship we end up creating with them.Sometimes we’re so focused on whether someone likes us that we don’t stop to think about the ton ... Show More

17m 19s

Sep 7

3 Traps Keeping You Stuck After Narcissistic Betrayal | Matt Monday

Why can someone who treated you terribly still be so hard to get over?You know they lied. You remember the manipulation, the gaslighting, and all the ways they made you question yourself. And yet, even after you leave, you can still find yourself replaying what happened, searchin ... Show More

17m 20s

Sep 4

What Men Say vs. What They Really Mean | Rewind

Have you ever walked away from a conversation with a guy thinking, “Wait... what did he actually mean by that?”Maybe he says he “isn’t ready for a relationship right now” but continues acting like your boyfriend. Or he tells you he “doesn’t want to hurt you” while still pursuing ... Show More

16m 8s

May 2023

How to avoid getting attached too quickly

It's easy to get attached to someone we've just met...because they're nice. Because they're attractive and treat us right. But how soon is too soon to get attached? Often times I'd become so fixated on one person early on, only to realize it was all smoke and mirrors. This person ... Show More

38m 27s

May 2024

#140: How to Not Lose Yourself in a New Relationship

Are you someone who tends to go from 0 to 100 at the start of a new relationship? In today's episode, we're exploring how to not lose yourself when you start dating someone new (although the advice also applies to people already in an established relationship who fee ... Show More

15m 58s

Feb 2024

Too Much, Too Soon Ruins Your Chance to Get to Know Someone

The way people date in our culture is like throwing spaghetti at a wall. It’s driven by attraction, it goes very fast toward sex, and then (especially if you have CPTSD or attachment wounds because of neglect in your childhood) you’re left totally dependent on the person ... Show More

26m 25s

Jun 2023

How to trust the process of your life & manifest faster

Trusting the process of your life can be a scary thing to do when it feels like everything is falling apart. It's also harder when you're trying to manifest things and you just feel blocked, stagnant and not your best self. Here is my best advice when it comes to trust ... Show More

41m 27s

Sep 2024

How to Not "Attach" Quickly When Dating

Learn why you may attach quickly and intensely to people in the early stages of dating, as well as how to take more of a detached approach to lessen the anxiety and stress you experience when others aren't consistent or pull away. <a href="https://jessic ... Show More

15m 28s

Oct 2022

My red flags I look out for when dating.

Have you ever been love bombed or felt underwhelmed by the texting character shown by the person you’re talking to? This week Lyss shares her personal experience with red flags while dating. When no effort is put in to making plans and excuses start to stack up, follow your in ... Show More

19m 1s

Dec 2024

#170: Dating Q&A: Early Dating with Anxious Attachment, Navigating Texting Anxiety, Not Attaching Too Quickly, Prioritising Values Over Chemistry

In this Q&A episode, I’m answering your most common questions about early dating—particularly through the lens of anxious attachment. If dating feels like a minefield of overthinking, anxiety, and emotional highs and lows, this episode is for you.We’ll explore:< ... Show More

26m 6s

Sep 2017

The Right Move (when you don't know what to do)

When we like someone, we often become self-conscious and question our choice of response. We wonder how to answer a text message, or edit ourselves in a new dating scenario. This leads to confusion and the erosion of our confidence. Here's what you can do to regain mastery of any ... Show More

4m 40s

Dec 2023

151. Stop getting attached too quickly ft. Lyss Boss

We all know the feeling of going on a few dates with someone and, suddenly, you're unable to stop checking your phone for messages, wondering when they're free, imagining the wedding, your future kids. And then we are left depleted, ghosted or disappointed. This is what happen ... Show More

45m 46s

Mar 2025

The Main Trap For An Anxiously Attached Man—And How To Escape It

Talking points: relationships, attachmentThere's one significant trap a lot of men fall into when they're anxiously attached. Good news? It's manageable—as long as you know where it's coming from. If you or your partner has this attachment style, dig in. (00:00:00) - Defining the ... Show More

15m 56s

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