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Jun 2023
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Dealing with Anger, Why We Get Angry, an...

Ryan Michler
About this episode

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler takes on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

 

(0:00) Episode intro⠀

(4:10) How do you control anger before it becomes rage?

(15:30) With all that is going on in the world today, why are people not talking about generational riptide?

(21:50) How do I deal with my wife after giving birth when she is mad at me for losing weight but isn’t making the best choices around fitness and nutrition for herself?

(30:30) Does taking a family vacation stress you out?

(33:30) How do you handle people who want to take your place in a leadership position, but they are not as capable as you are?

(40:00) What can one do to develop a stronger self-worth and self-esteem?

(46:20) How do I help my wife and children through the trauma of being in a major car accident?

(51:20) What practical things do you start doing every day to move you closer to the person that you want to be?

(55:00) How do you deal with the negative people who constantly tell you that you cant do what you need to do?

(58:30) What did you learn from a recent failure?

 

 

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