This is about codependency and how it can make it hard to choose right. This is aimed at changing the goal you have in your search for love.
This is for anyone who has a habit of choosing bad relationships and therefore they feel like they cannot be happy. Maybe you have a pattern of super meh relationships and you don’t really know if you like the other per ... Show More
Sep 25
Ep 285: Can vs. Should: The little engine that needs relief
Yes, you think you can, but should you? If you are a “doer” who tends to do lots for everyone else, there is likely a part of you that is stuck in that position. It’s one that feels bound by duty and the expectations of others, yet it’s conditioned and created by us. But it almos ... Show More
48m 34s
Feb 2023
EP 386: Stop Dating People with Problems You Can't Solve with Amber
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This episode is about breaking bad dating patterns. Today's caller, Amber, is aware that she has a pattern of dating men with issues, but she is unsure how to shift it. She asks for guidance about why she continually calls in the same type of pe ... Show More
29m 39s
Aug 2017
Why You Keep Falling in Love With The Wrong Person | E113
Do you attract the wrong people? Do you keep having toxic relationships? If so, you're not alone.
You'd be surprised at how many people come to us for life coaching, breakup recovery, individual therapy, or dating coaching hoping to achieve one goal: Having a healthy relationshi ... Show More
36m 23s
Sep 2021
121. It's Time to Start Your Journey in Choosing Self Love Over Codependency
Codependency can take reigns over our lives, but that doesn't have to be the end of the story. In this episode, I sat down with some alumni from my Spring 2021 Self Love Over Codependency course. They share their stories, steps they took toward self love, and what life has been l ... Show More
1h 15m
Sep 2021
118. The Codependency Chronicles: People Pleasing Isn't Who You Are, It's What You Learned
In this episode of The Self Love Fix Podcast, I'm discussing the root cause of people-pleasing and how to break the habit. People-pleasing is a core symptom of codependency, and overcoming these tendencies can be a long process. But I promise you - it is well worth the inner work ... Show More
15m 58s
Sep 2025
280. The Secret to Improving Your Relationship (Without Changing Your Partner)
So often we believe that a better relationship depends on our partner changing. But the truth is, the real work starts with you. If you’ve ever felt stuck giving too much, overcompensating, or constantly managing the relationship on your own, this episode is for you. I share prac ... Show More
29m 57s