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Oct 2022
25m 35s

When you just dont want to move on - but...

fleeksie
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You don’t want to move on, but everyone around you is telling you it’s been time to. And yet, here we are. I’m not here to shame you, because I’ve been you. Outer circle of people begging me to move on and all. Here’s an understanding take on how to move on when you secretly don’t want too, and what it takes to get you to that place.


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