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Jun 2023
1h 9m

Trauma Bond? Love Yourself First.

Sven Erlandson
About this episode
Poignant life lessons emerge from Sven's counseling session with two remarkable women who suffered trauma, feel trapped in relationships, and are fearful of the resulting effect on their children. Sven explains that setting the right example means loving on yourself first, and taking action. Sven's guests, Erica and Kim, have some great insight for each othe ... Show More
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