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May 2023
15m 20s

(Matt Monday): The UNEXPECTED Way to Mak...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
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We’ve been told from a very young age to “play it cool” . . . But as we grow up, we realize that when we feel we need to “play it cool” to keep someone interested, that often means we’re feeling anything but cool . . . and it usually comes from a place of insecurity or a fear of being rejected. Pretty soon, we find ourselves calibrating our conversations and contorting ourselves to meet the other person’s needs so we don’t come off as needy or a nuisance, and little by little, we start to show them that our needs can be ignored with no repercussions . . .   In today’s new episode, you’ll learn the best way to increase attraction and investment in a way that doesn’t diminish your value or make you feel like a nuisance simply for stating your needs. --- ►► Finally Start Believing in Your Own Worth. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com

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