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May 2023
55m 46s

Don’t Marry For Love, Instead Choose You...

Karla Elia
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In this episode we dove I to what we mean by choose your standards first & THEN choose your man. We explain what it means to be in a marred relationship, & how it’s not always about unconditional love. 
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