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Apr 2023
40m 17s

How to Deal With the Worry of Waiting

THE ART OF MANLINESS
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If you've ever waited, and perhaps are now currently waiting, to hear whether or not you've tested positive for a disease, passed medical boards, or got the job you interviewed for, you know that this period of uncertainty can be filled with tension and anxiety. My guest today — Kate Sweeny, a professor of psychology — has studied the dynamics of this human ... Show More
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