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Mar 2023
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Leadership: Avoiding the Advice Trap wit...

Kwame Christian Esq., M.A.
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In this special episode with author, Michael Bungay Stanier, Michael talks about his new book, The Advice Trap and ends with a live LinkedIn Q&A.



Connect with Michael on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelbungaystanier/?originalSubdomain=ca


Book: The Advice Trap: Be Humble, Stay Curious & Change the Way You Lead Forever https://www.amazon.com/Advice-Trap-Humble-Curious-Forever/dp/1989025757


Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever https://www.amazon.com/Coaching-Habit-Less-Change-Forever/dp/0978440749



Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/



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