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Mar 2023
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137. You're Not Crazy, Your Attachment S...

CiiCii
About this episode
Our attachment style, whether anxious, avoidant, or disorganized, colors the relationships we have with others. We may be SECRETLY sabotaging our love life, or running from it completely, but only see on the surface that our relationships don’t work “for some reason.” While there is nothing wrong with you, you may be dealing with a dysfunctional system that is giving you less than great results in the love department. Instead of trying to move in the dark, let’s bring light to this subject and release our relationship fears.

Other Relevant Episodes:
Attachment Styles: Which One Are YOU?
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/attachment-styles-which-one-are-you/id1525817638?i=1000531867348

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5i8TnsKjyVkLFQFEtaFEVz?si=11bf4e099c924307

Miss *Co*dependent: Enmeshment, Anxious Attachment, and Boundaries
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/no/podcast/miss-co-dependent-enmeshment-anxious-attachment-and/id1525817638?i=1000538635939&l=nb

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6pbs0hX7bPcZKxiSrJCOoz?si=c82f05d019c24d65

The 21 Day Break Up Glow Up Challenge: https://21-day-break-up-glow-up-challenge.teachable.com/p/21-day-break-up-glow-up-challenge/
Taking Your Power Back Workbook: https://21-day-break-up-glow-up-challenge.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-16643
Connect With Me On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vibinwithciicii/
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