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Feb 2023
1h 14m

Is It “Limerence” Or True Love?

BETCHES MEDIA
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Does love at first sight really exist? And what’s the difference between love and limerence? Jordana and Dr. Naomi start the show with a conversation about the concept of limerence and why romantic obsession doesn’t always lead to lasting love. Then an emailer writes in to ask how to address changing your pronouns when you’re in a committed relationship. How ... Show More
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