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Feb 2023
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Confession Corner: HORRIBLE DATES 3

Violet Benson
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WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER - PART 3

Hey Besties! this month's confession corner is all about your WORST first dates! We couldn’t get enough of last week’s drunken first date stories about hilarious, shocking, or just the worst ever you’re starting to have second thoughts about dating. 

Today, Violetta and her childhood friend Bree are back with another batch of horrible date stories. One includes giving the guy multiple chances despite the barrage of red flags in the hopes that it will somehow ‘get better’ in the end. The other ended up getting ditched for another girl in the bar. Listen up as the girls pitch in their own stories of worst first dates and some pieces of advice on how not to end up with a bad date!


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What to Listen For:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 01:24 Hoping for a better date until the end
  • 06:37 One time I had a bad date…
  • 11:28 We dated for 48 hours
  • 14:56 He was a virgin
  • 24:54 What it means when they say, “You’re so high maintenance?”
  • 29:33 Sexual dancing with another girl
  • 33:57 Do FaceTime before you date
  • 44:54 Average boyfriend penis is for marriage
  • 50:54 Stay away from s*x workers online


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