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Jun 2024
1h 15m

Are Assumptions Ruining Dating?

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Do we actually know what the opposite sex wants when it comes to dating, or have we been wrong all along? On this episode, we're discussing a recent study that shows how assumptions and misconceptions could be hurting your dating life. We talk about why and how we misread people in early stages of dating and how to stop, the importance of recognizing differe ... Show More
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