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Apr 2023
1h 11m

Why You Shouldn't Feel Guilty When a Man...

Kornelija Collins
About this episode

#45 This week we welcome Anna Kai. Anna is a content creator and relationship expert who has helped MANY people navigate the complex world of dating and relationships. Across all of her social media channels (and on this podcast episode), Anna provides valuable insight for anyone looking to build a healthy and fulfilling relationship. 

In this episode, Anna shares her insights on utilizing dating apps, curating a dating profile, and raising your standards when it comes to dating. She emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and discusses how to deal with being ghosted. Anna talks about men who are not willing to commit and how to recognize when someone is not a good match for you. She explains a healthy partnership and how to feel safe and secure in your relationship. 

Tune in to hear Anna’s expert advice and tips for finding the right partner and building a strong foundation for a lasting and healthy relationship. 


Episode highlights…

Utilizing dating apps

How to curate a dating profile

Raising your standards 

Boundaries in dating 

Getting ghosted 

Men who are not willing to commit 

What a healthy relationship looks like 

Feeling safe in your relationship 

Bad habits of men

Having high standards

Letting a guy pay on your dates

Wanting to feel like you are being taken care of 


Timestamps:

0:00- 10:30 | Dating (the app game) 

10:30- 22:00 | Boundaries in the early stages of dating dating 

22:00- 30:15 | Men who are not willing to commit 

30:15- 40:00 | What a healthy relationship looks like 

40:00- 48:30 | Trying to change a man 

48:30- 59:40 | having high standards 

59:40- 1:06 | Wanting to feel like you are being taken care of 


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