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Feb 2023
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Episode 168: How To Bring Your Sexual Fa...

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
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There’s a pretty big gap between fantasy and reality. In my own research, I’ve found that about 80% of adults say they have a fantasy they’d like to act out at some point, but just about 20% have ever done so before. I’ve also found that only about half of adults say they’ve ever even shared this fantasy with a partner. So how can we get mo ... Show More
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