logo
episode-header-image
Feb 2023
1h 2m

Grow In Love w/ Nick Viall

Violet Benson
About this episode

Hey Besties! Happy Heart’s Day! It’s Valentine’s week so it’s only natural that we talk about being in love and experiencing these strong feelings with the right partner.  

Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome back celebrity heartthrob, best-selling author, esteemed host of The Viall Files podcast, and adored member of Bachelor Nation, Nick Viall. A year ago or so, Violet and Nick talked about dating advice from a man's perspective. This time, their conversation revolves around growing in love instead of staying in love, the value of being consistent throughout the relationship which people don’t talk about a lot, how trust and open communication, despite sounding cliché, is the ultimate key to a lasting love! All these and of course making each other a priority works too! So listen in to find out more simple yet realistic love advice!


Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm 

HONEYLOVE: Visit www.honeylove.com and use code: ADULTING


What to Listen For:

  • 00:00 Introduction
  • 02:09 The love story
  • 05:43 Try to make it work
  • 07:41 Those times we felt the most
  • 09:20 What did she DM?
  • 11:35 Feeling unsure 
  • 14:37 Building emotional connection
  • 19:11 Feelings change
  • 22:30 Making each other a priority
  • 26:17 Growing in love
  • 28:23 Trust and communication
  • 35:24 Do you want a life partner?
  • 38:11 Situationship 
  • 40:19 Meet and greet with family & friends
  • 42:15 Grocery store rule
  • 44:31 The biggest red flag
  • 47:44 I like you, BUT…
  • 52:25 Choose your partner everyday
  • 56:17 Being cheated on
  • 01:00:55 Be an old school lover  


Connect with Nick on:


Get more content on:


See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Up next
Yesterday
Stop Being So Hard on Yourself TODAY
Why are we so f*cking mean to ourselves?This week, we’re diving deep into that nonstop voice in your head that tells you you’re not good enough, smart enough, hot enough, just... not enough. You’ll find out why it exists, how it got there, and how to finally shut it the hell up.W ... Show More
32m 56s
Jun 26
Is It Clingy…Or Just Your Love Language?
Think you’re low-maintenance until they stop texting back? Can’t breathe unless you’re together 24/7? Sounds like you’ve got a ‘Quality Time’ love language. But don’t panic... needing time isn’t the problem, ignoring it is.Hi besties!! Today we’re breaking down everything you nee ... Show More
31m 47s
Jun 19
Why You’re Gaining Weight, Attracting Losers, & Can’t Manifest Sh*t with The Hot High Priestess
What if I told you the reason you don’t have your summer body… is because of your situationship?This week I’m joined by Sarah Perl, aka The Hot High Priestess, and we’re unpacking why your anxiety, trauma, and bad taste in men are literally showing up on your body.We go deep on:W ... Show More
53m 56s
Recommended Episodes
Mar 2023
The Road To Love: Dating, Cheating and Age Gaps with Reality TV star Nick Viall
Is it really that wrong to text your ex happy birthday? The Bachelor ABC star, Nick Viall, says yes! Nick has had a tumultuous journey finding love in the public eye over the last 10 years and today he joins to share about his decade of growth and current outlook on love. Nick op ... Show More
1h 14m
Jan 2024
The #1 Dating Mistake That’s Keeping You Single | Nick Viall
Today we're excited to welcome a special guest who's no stranger to the spotlight of love and relationships — Nick Viall. An LA-based award-winning podcast host, best-selling author, entrepreneur, and a familiar face from ABC’s “The Bachelor,” Nick has carved a niche for himself ... Show More
1h 10m
Jul 2022
3 Traits of Lasting Relationships & What You Can Learn From Failed Relationships
Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm Why do some people stay in a relationship? People stay because they are in love obviously – but sometimes people stay because it’s c ... Show More
56m 21s
Jan 2024
Everything We’ve Learned About LOVE (Live Audience Q&A + A SURPRISE!) | Martha Higareda
HAPPY NEW YEAR! Get ready for an incredibly personal and heartwarming episode of The School of Greatness Podcast, recorded LIVE at The Summit of Greatness 2023. In this special moment, Martha Higareda and Lewis Howes share the stage for the first time, and their candid conversati ... Show More
1h 3m
Mar 2022
4 Things That Are Not Love and 4 Ways To Know You Have Found The One
Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on CalmLove isn’t love when you don’t grow together, when you don’t appreciate your partner’s efforts and time, when your goals do not align ... Show More
28m 17s
Sep 2022
8 Rules of Love & Why You Shouldn’t Ignore Them
Today, I’d like to share with you some amazing news. I will be releasing a new book called, “8 Rules of Love”. I’ve been working on this for the past years and I am so excited to finally share it with everyone!In this episode, I get to answer some of the frequently asked question ... Show More
28m 40s
Aug 2021
Matthew Hussey ON: How to Get Over Your Ex & Find True Love in Your Relationships
You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of ... Show More
1h 31m
Jun 2023
How to Embody True Love with Annie Lalla | 5
Annie Lalla is a renowned relationship coach and cartographer of True Love. She’s dedicated her life to mapping the terrain of true love and guiding others to find their own path to fulfilling relationships.    Annie has over a decade of experience and has become a beacon of wisd ... Show More
1h 18m
Feb 2023
A Toolkit for Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go
In this episode, you and I are getting a masterclass on the topic of love. And it’s not what you think.  This is not an episode about relationships – it is an episode about YOUR relationship to love and how you can let more love into your life.  My mission with this episode is to ... Show More
1h 2m
Jul 2021
Esther Perel ON: Finding Love & the Real Reason Couples Break Up
You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of ... Show More
1h 11m