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Jun 2023
1h 18m

How to Embody True Love with Annie Lalla...

Layla Martin
About this episode

Annie Lalla is a renowned relationship coach and cartographer of True Love. She’s dedicated her life to mapping the terrain of true love and guiding others to find their own path to fulfilling relationships. 

 

Annie has over a decade of experience and has become a beacon of wisdom and inspiration for couples seeking profound intimacy and connection.

 

Annie's personal journey and unwavering devotion to her partnership make her an incredibly powerful guide for couples seeking lasting love. She’s helped countless individuals and couples overcome challenges, embrace vulnerability, and cultivate deep connections. Through her coaching, guidance, and sisterhood, Annie has empowered others to discover their worth and unleash the potential for true love in their lives.

 

As a cartographer of True Love, Annie Lalla continues to inspire individuals and couples to embark on their own magical journeys toward authentic and beautiful expressions of sex, love, and relationships. Her transformative teachings and unwavering devotion to love have earned her the admiration and gratitude of those who have had the privilege of learning from her.

 

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0:00 Intro

3:37 Annie’s Journey to a Beautiful, Glorious Marriage

8:19 Letting Go of the Death Grip of Wanting Love

11:06 True Love is a Gladiator Sport

17:16 Finding Love in Despair and the Art of Uncoupling

24:23 Overcoming Unworthiness & Calling in Love

32:53 The Power of Holding a Vision in Romantic Relationships

41:33 Standing for Love through Pain and Rejection

52:49 Sex Magic & Standing for Love

57:37 From Happily Ever After to Alive Ever After

1:01:24 It’s Okay to be Terrified

1:05:25 What We Wish People Knew

1:09:00 Main Tips for Raising Self Esteem

1:12:22 Advice for Men Everywhere

1:15:23 Conclusion

 

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