Have you ever been told that “It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it?”
As maddening as this can be to hear (especially if it’s lobbed at you in the middle of a disagreement), it’s also true: The way we deliver a message impacts the way it’s received just as much as the message itself.
In fact, most of what we communicate to the people around us is ... Show More
Apr 29
Betrayal Trauma Recovery | LHS Classic
Sometimes the worst part of betrayal is not what happened. It’s what keeps happening inside you afterward. Betrayal trauma recovery is about understanding why betrayal trauma can leave you anxious, hypervigilant, angry, shut down, or unsure of yourself long after the original eve ... Show More
1h 5m
Apr 27
How to Stop People-Pleasing and Start Being Respected | Kelvin Davis | Happiness | E518
If you struggle with boundaries, you can end up “nice”… and quietly miserable. Because when conflict shows up, you default to appeasing, avoiding, or people-pleasing. And then the same communication problems keep replaying until your emotional intimacy erodes. In this conversatio ... Show More
1h 10m
May 2021
Ethan Kross | Dominate Your Inner-Dialogue and Become The Ultimate Leader
In today’s episode, we cover our inner voices and chatter with Dr. Ethan Kross. Ethan is an American experimental psychologist, neuroscientist and writer, who specializes in emotion regulation. He is a professor of psychology and management at the University of Michigan and direc ... Show More
1 h