We often strive to be perfect in all that we do; but perfectionism can lead us down a path of constant dissatisfaction, feelings of guilt and worry. This year, instead of focusing on being perfect, let's focus on being better—better than where we were last year and better at taking care of ourselves. It's time to start aiming for progress rather tha ... Show More
Aug 26
The Friendship Audit: Loving Someone From a Distance
What if some friendships aren’t meant to last forever, but still leave something beautiful behind? In this episode, we explore the quiet shifts that happen when people grow apart. No drama, no blame, just change. It’s about loving someone from afar, holding the memories with grat ... Show More
11m 39s
Aug 19
Inherited Anxiety – Breaking the Chain
Some anxiety doesn’t start with you. Sometimes, it’s inherited, passed down through generations like an emotional keepsake. In this episode, we explore how fear becomes part of the family system, how to recognize patterns that aren’t yours, and how to return them with compassion. ... Show More
14m 54s
Apr 2020
The beauty of an imperfect life
So many people stop at the end of their thoughts and ideas because they keep seeking the perfect idea, the perfect strategy, the perfect approach, but what if perfection by itself was the main reason for your slow progress? What happens if we aim for imperfection to move forward, ... Show More
8m 51s
Jul 2020
2. Perfectionism and Defeatism
A common driver for addiction is perfectionism. When we feel like we don’t have control over our own life and can’t achieve perfection, we seek for something that we can control (in a sex addict’s life, this is lust). When perfectionism drives us, we can develop a defeatist menta ... Show More
20m 51s
Sep 2020
1005 Be Patient, Not Perfect
"Perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection we can catch excellence." - Vince LombardiOn today's 5-minute Friday, Lewis unpacks the dangers of perfectionism, illustrating the importance of focusing on habits, routines, and processes instead of comparing outcomes. Yo ... Show More
4m 55s
Sep 2023
34 — Stop Being a Perfectionist and Embrace Your Imperfections with Professor Thomas Curran
Perfectionism takes a serious toll on your mental health and well-being. It's often driven by the fear of not being good enough and involves a desire to get validation from others. It often leads to anxiety, depression, and loneliness. Fortunately, there are some things that can ... Show More
44m 29s
Sep 2021
749 - The Truth About Perfectionism
Get this episode ad-free when you join TLBC+ today: https://tlbc.co/join In this episode, I share the truth about perfectionism. Get excited, because this is Tiny Leaps, Big Changes. Welcome to another episode of Tiny Leaps, Big Changes where I share research-backed strategies yo ... Show More
16m 5s