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Aug 2022
1h 31m

Imposter syndrome, priorities and being ...

BRITTANY HOCKLEY AND LAURA BYRNE
About this episode

WE'RE BACK BABY!!!

Offft it's nice to be in and around your ears again.

It would seem like we are all a bit too obsessed with each other because we decided to go to the same holiday destination and hang out with each other over there...

Laura also decided to test run a 'vagina ozaniser,' which she will fill you in on. Turns out, it wasn't a steam.

Then we are joined by (arguably) AUSTRALIA'S FAVOURITE HUMAN - HAMISH BLAKE.


In our chat we talk about how Hamish & Andy have navigated 20 years of friendship and working together, and how they've created so much original content over the decades.

Hamish gets deep and talks about buying time, saying no, priorities, his love story and why we should view love conditionally.

If you loved the episode, chuck us a review on apple pods or a star rating on spotify and tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because we love love!!

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