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Jul 2024
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81. Not for Meet Cutes + How "Sex and th...

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Welcome back to Not For Everyone, where this week, Jess and Caroline think people need to cool it. They discuss how people don’t know how to be properly annoyed anymore, how people can’t stop demeaning Americans on the internet, and how people go insane in the comment sections.


This leads to some deeper conversations about how we get lost in what a love story “should” look like, a Sex and the City dating fallacy, and why throwing shade isn’t actually that bad. Plus, we get to the meat of great conversation starters—and how sometimes the most unexpected topics create hours of conversation. Like this podcast! So meta.

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