logo
episode-header-image
Apr 2020
59m 53s

The Process of Dealing With Grief, with ...

At Your Service
About this episode

This conversation was overdue yet couldn’t be more timely. I’ve had extensive conversations with Anna Shinoda about grief, so I wanted to understand and share the experience with you all. From grieving a public figure, to grieving a private person, to understanding there is more than just the big grief — there are so many little ones along the way, and just as many ways to handle each experience. It’s a topic that has been on my mind all year and one I felt we needed insight on.

This episode, like all of this season, was taped before COVID-19. The entire world is going through an experience of collective grief right now - whether we have processed it or not. When I watched this interview in post production I felt like I was having an out of body experience — like I was watching and listening through the lens of a new world. I found even more comfort and guidance in this conversation.

This is a deep one. Take a deep breath before you enter and know we are virtually holding each other through this all. Love and appreciate y’all. And thank you Anna for walking us through The Process of Dealing with Grief.

In case you or someone you know needs support, here are some resources:
Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK
Crisis Text Line, the free, nationwide, 24/7 text message service for people in crisis, is here to support. For support in the United States, text HELLO to 741741 or message at facebook.com/CrisisTextLine
For support outside the US, find resources at http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html

Up next
Feb 2023
The Process of Letting Your Work Speak for Itself with Creative Director Ruba Abu-Nimah
I’ve always been a believer in letting your work speak for itself. One of the fields that does this in a very literal sense is design and creative direction; when someone creates something that makes you FEEL something. Ruba Abu-Nimah is the creative director of Revlon. She has b ... Show More
45m 17s
Apr 2020
The Process of Making High Risk Decisions Like a CEO, with Daniel Grieder (CEO, Hugo Boss - formerly Tommy Hilfiger)
In early February 2020 I sat down with the Former CEO of Tommy Hilfiger Global in his Amsterdam office. The references to COVID so early on are eerie to listen to now - as fashion was one of the first industries impacted by the virus. But - this conversation is even more relevant ... Show More
36m 34s
Apr 2020
The Process of Being Critical of Something You Love, with Sarah Hoover (Director, Gagosian Gallery)
“I love America more than any other country in this world, and, exactly for this reason, I insist on the right to criticize her perpetually.” Thats a quote from James Baldwin. One of my favorites. But I realized it applies to so many things...our careers/industries, our relations ... Show More
43m 25s
Recommended Episodes
Dec 2022
I Didn’t Expect to Record This: I Want to Talk to You About tWitch’s Death
I’m checking in on you and me. There's a lot going on in the world right now, and I am still reeling from the news that Stephen ‘tWitch’ Boss died from suicide. If you had to ask me to list the 5 most positive people on the planet, The Rock would be #1, and tWitch would be #2. Ha ... Show More
15m 34s
Jan 2024
Committed Suicide in Front of Family
Gillian delves into the complex emotions surrounding the loss of her brother to suicide. She bravely shares her personal journey, shedding light on the unique challenges and struggles that accompany this type of loss. By sharing these stories, we hope to break the silence surroun ... Show More
1h 7m
Sep 2023
91. Out In The World
In honor of National Suicide Prevention Month, Nora reads an email from a mom who lost her daughter to suicide five years ago. It’s proof that even when the most painful thing happens, with time, things can feel okay.  If you are having thoughts of suicide, please dial 988 to get ... Show More
6m 27s
Feb 2021
Are You Feeling Suicidal?
Season 2 Finale! We started this season on a bridge but told you not to get caught up in the romantic notion of saviors and last minute interventions. Suicide isn’t about one moment in time. But if you or someone you love is suicidal, a single moment can be the difference between ... Show More
1h 1m
Jan 2022
The Paradox of Grief
Most of us don't like to think about death - and when we experience a bereavement we're often not prepared for the pain or willing to confront all the feelings grief can bring. Psychotherapist Julia Samuel says the paradox of grief is that we need to let it rage through us with i ... Show More
29m 52s
Mar 2021
June Sarpong
Does feeling different to others – or perceiving others as different to you – make you uncomfortable, or do you celebrate uniqueness? June Sarpong reckons we all need to own our differences. In fact, she’s now using her own experience of working in TV to make the industry a kinde ... Show More
47m 12s
Oct 2020
Is Suicide Contagious?
The term “suicide contagion” gets thrown around a lot in academic papers and media headlines, but what does it actually mean? The term suggests that suicidal ideation is something you can catch, but the reality is much more complicated. This week, we navigate the complexities of ... Show More
1h 2m
Jan 2022
The Grieving Process: Coping with Death (How to Move Forward) FT. Mariana Vargas Ep. 62
There is no right or wrong way to deal with the loss of a loved one. The  grieving process is rough—and it's different for everyone. It's not  just a matter of coping with a loss, but coping with change—and that  takes time.   Today on The Coffee Breakup, we're dealing with a ver ... Show More
42m 37s
Dec 2020
I Feel Nothing
What’s the point of going to treatment if you’ve essentially been dealt a death sentence? That’s the way some veterans feel about a potential PTSD diagnosis. Another thing holding people back? The fear that their trauma isn’t bad enough. So how do you admit you need help? And whe ... Show More
56m 27s
Apr 2021
Dr Rangan Chatterjee
Believing that medicine is more art than science, Dr Rangan Chatterjee’s MO is understanding how lifestyle factors like upbringing, social status, stress levels, sleep, and even phone use might be affecting your physical and mental health. In this chat with Fearne, they talk thro ... Show More
57m 47s