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Apr 2021
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Episode 496: Don’t Listen To This Person...

LUCIA
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If you're trying to get an ex back, you probably already know that you shouldn't ask your family and friends for advice, because they will always tell you to break no contact. There's also someone else you shouldn't take advice from after a breakup. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the one person you should not go to for help in getting your ex back, and who to listen to instead.


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