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Feb 2020
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popularity and being 'liked': she doesn'...

SEPHY AND WING
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you can’t sit with us… jks you can. in this episode of Goes Without Saying, we (sephy & wing) explore popularity! does coolness equate to happiness? why are we all so desp to be popular? is it even worth being liked? has social media and the rise of influencers made us all obsessed with popularity? in this episode we talk about our own experiences with social cliques and argue about feminism and pretty privilege…

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