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Dec 2022
37m 6s

Popularity (via Mean Girls) šŸ’‹

Jake Ernst & Simon Paluck
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This Isn't Therapy...it's a conversation about WHY YOU'RE SO OBSESSED WITH ME. In episode 57 of the pod, Jake and Simon discuss popularity via the seminal film and cinematic masterpiece Mean Girls. What follows is a fetch conversation about status popularity vs. likability and the impact of horizontal/vertical relationships. How much do you love it? The limi ...Ā Show More
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