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Oct 2022
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#46 Defining Confidence: Growing Through...

FAHAD ALENEZI
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It happens so often that you ignore how you react or respond to your surroundings. Sometimes, you act out thinking it's just a response from an 'audience' perspective. You think, "This isn't even about me!" Without realizing it, it is defining you too. 
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