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Dec 2015
30m 47s

How To Crush It At Christmas Parties

Dr. Aziz: Social Anxiety And Confidence Expert, Author and Coach
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Confidently Meet People, Make Connections, And Enjoy Yourself This Holiday

 

Do you dread Christmas parties? Do you have a hard time starting conversations, keeping them going, and really enjoying yourself at these things? If so, you’re in the right place. Join Dr. Aziz as he provides simple, practical guidance on how to show up to any party with way more confidence and social power.

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