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Oct 2022
43m 15s

What Happened to the Idea of Self-Contro...

THE ART OF MANLINESS
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As long as humans have existed, we’ve had to choose between our lower and higher desires — between what we want in the moment, and what we want in the long-term. As long as humans have existed, we’ve had to exercise self-control. While exercising self-control has always been part of the human condition, our ideas about it have changed through the ages, as h ... Show More
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