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Jul 2019
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The Dr Glover School of "No More Mr Nice...

SEBASTIAAN VAN DER SCHRIER
About this episode

In this episode...

 

Are you a nice guy (or girl) tired of not getting your needs met and feeling unlovable?

In this post, my buddy Tom Woodfin interviews expert author Dr. Robert Glover in this part 2 interview.

Learn how to get your needs met and set up boundaries to let love in, to be in the reality of your situation, and to break through your social anxiety challenges and more.

It's time to bring your A game and show up for your life and for yourself!

Here are some things you’ll learn:

  • The things we mistake for love
  • Letting go and letting in what you want
  • Addressing your unique story and needs
  • Establishing boundaries and inviting love
  • Painful outcomes when you have no boundaries
  • Fearlessly following your own boundaries
  • Recovering from "Nice Guy" syndrome (what's the outlook)
  • Don't rot in middle management as the "nice guy"
  • Addressing the looming fear of conflict
  • Eliminating drama from the story and the sting from your life
  • Where to go for more help and support
  • Conclusion: breaking through challenges (like social anxiety)

For the show notes page go here.

For the post and video go here.

 

Contact me directly:

www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/

Warm regards, Sebastiaan van der Schrier

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Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself?

You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too.

Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it.

It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears.

Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence?

Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes!

2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course.

3.) Let’s connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb

All the best on your journey to effortless social ease.

Warm regards, Seb

 

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