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Oct 2022
1h 11m

The negativity that likes to work its wa...

PAUL COLAIANNI
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Are you inadvertently allowing negativity into my mind and body? When someone puts you down or mistreats you, is it possible you are unintentionally enabling this behavior? You shouldn't be blamed for other people's bad behaviors, but you should also not be too tolerant of it either.  
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