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Sep 2022
1h 2m

How to Effectively Communicate What You ...

RICK HANSON, PH.D., FORREST HANSON
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On the previous episode of Being Well, we talked about how to identify our wants and needs...but identifying our needs is just the first step. After that comes the tricky business of coming to terms with those needs, and communicating them effectively to other people. In this episode, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson explore best practices for claiming and expres ... Show More
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