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Jul 2022
30m 18s

Episode 22 Difficult Conversations: Talk...

TAMERA RASMUSSEN
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Talking about sex begins with understanding the human body

It is never too early to start teaching your kids about their sexuality

Name parts appropriately – eliminating shame, when we are afraid to name genitalia or talk about bodies it teaches our children to be ashamed/uncomfortable with it too, teaching pride in gender, protection from predators

Teaching healthy curiosity - get ahead of the bus

Touching and exploration is normal - guide appropriate curiosity

Don’t freak out or assume deviancy or sexual abuse because of curiosity – openly communicate about curiosity

Don’t lie or avoid questions about sex, answer honestly

Age appropriate examples – having babies requires a mommy and a daddy, like chickens have eggs, mommy’s have eggs too

Book Recommendation: Who Has What?: All About Girls' Bodies and Boys' Bodies (Let's Talk about You and Me) by Robie H. Harris

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