Not only is sex one of the leading causes for divorce it is also one of the most painful aspects of marriage. It is one of the first things most couples seek from each other and one of the first things that they fight about.
Myths about sex
1. If you wait to have sex until marriage it will be perfect and you will have no issues– Nope
The divorce rate for single partner marriage are by far the lowest but sexual issues can still exist.
2. If you test drive a few people and find the perfect sexual chemistry, you’ll have a great sex life for the duration of your marriage – Nope
3. You have to have sex once a week or more to be considered sexually healthy – Nope
4. Men always want to have sex – Nope
5. Women never want to have sex - Nope
6. Only Men have affairs/pornography/sex addictions – Nope
Men and women are having affairs at almost equal rates
A growing number of women are pursuing pornography.
1/3 of divorce litigation involves an online affair, most affairs are preceded by a relationship with pornography.
Most affairs happen with an in-law, mutual friend, co-worker, or social media connection.
7. Having friendships with people of the opposite gender is harmless - Not always.
I know that talking about sex and sexual issues can be awkward and uncomfortable, I have chosen to dispel some myths about sex as a segway into a full series about sex and sexual issues. In this series, I will be tackling common sexual issues, how to have good Godly sex, and how to navigate talking about sex in other relationships and parenting.
If you are suffering sexually, please get help, there is no shame in seeking a healthy connection in your marriage!
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