something i (and probably you) have struggled with our whole lives is thinking other people are cooler than us. seeing someone on social media or at a party and thinking, 'god, why are they so much cooler than me?' it's just a part of life. but recently, i have come to the conclusion that i don't think anyone is that cool. i think some people are just better ... Show More
Mar 2026
friendship breakups and boundaries, advice session
[video available on spotify]welcome back to advice session, a series here on anything goes where you send in your current dilemmas or anything you want advice on, and i give you my unprofessional advice. today's topic is friendship breakups and boundaries, also known as the less ... Show More
34m 16s
Mar 2026
growing is so uncomfortable lol
[video available on spotify] i'm definitely in a stage of limbo in my life right now that is undeniably deeply uncomfortable. i feel like i'm growing right now, and it's one thing to be growing on a micro scale, like in one area of your life, but it's another thing to be growing ... Show More
45m 29s
May 2024
How To Become The Coolest Person You Know
#146. Have you ever met someone who is just f*cking COOL? Just effortlessly themselves? When I think of the coolest people I know (namely, my friends), I realize they have a few personality traits in common. In this episode, I’m detailing specific traits that the coolest people I ... Show More
53m 15s
Dec 2024
How I Overcame Imposter Syndrome
Hello, hello! Today’s episode of “Chiquis and Chill” is about something I think most of us can relate to. Have you ever felt like you weren’t as smart or capable as others think you are? If so, this episode is for you! That’s right, we’ll be talking all about imposter syndrome, m ... Show More
22m 24s
Jun 2023
the curse of needing to be "cool"
This week on Time Alone, Siobhan shares how needing to be perceived as "cool" limited her self expression in early life, and how she's being mindful of this pressure in adulthood.Resources mentioned in the show, as well as how to connect with Siobhan can be found below.CONNECT WI ... Show More
32m 56s
Jan 2024
#127: How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others
<p>In today's episode, we're talking all about comparison. Comparison is one of those things that we're all susceptible to at some point or another: we compare ourselves based on appearance, personality, success, relationships. It can sometimes seem like there&apos ... Show More
17m 43s