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Nov 2022
19m 16s

38: It's Cool to Not Be Cool

Ashley Corbo
About this episode
today's episode is all about how to ACTUALLY BE cool 

- avoiding being disliked
- trends and popularity 
- losing track of who you are 
- the more you fit in the less you stand out 
- being you is cool 

let's be besties! my socials: 
INSTAGRAM: @ashleycorbo + @tryingnot2carepodcast
TIKTOK: @lilbabyaries + @tryingnottocarepodcast 
YOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444
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