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Oct 2015
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453: Zachary Stockill | Retroactive Jeal...

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Zachary Stockill (@zfstockill) shows us how overcoming retroactive jealousy and possessiveness is as easy as learning to let go.
The Cheat Sheet:

All jealousy is related to insecurity in some way.
How should we deal with the complex cultural politics of social media in 2015 as they relate to retroactive jealousy?
What are your values?
Jealousy and possessiveness often cause us to stay in unhealthy relationships for far too long.
Is it fair to judge our partners based on their past? Or is the present all that really matters?
And so much more...

Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/zachary-stockill-retroactive-jealousy-episode-453/
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