Zachary Stockill (@zfstockill) shows us how overcoming retroactive jealousy and possessiveness is as easy as learning to let go.The Cheat Sheet:All jealousy is related to insecurity in some way.How should we deal with the complex cultural politics of social media in 2015 as they relate to retroactive jealousy?What are your values?Jealousy and possessiveness ... Show More
Oct 19
Working Harder Makes You Less Productive | Dr. Christian Poensgen
What if your obsession with productivity is actually making you less productive—and damaging the relationships that matter most? Working longer hours, answering every message, and sacrificing rest might feel like the path to success, but chronic stress and burnout can quietly und ... Show More
1h 2m
Oct 12
The FBI’s Secret to Influencing Anyone | Kyle Vowinkel
When pressure rises, your instinct may be to take control, push harder, and force a decision. But the harder you push, the more resistance you can create. AJ sits down with former FBI hostage negotiator and Hostage Rescue Team operator Kyle to explore how to stay calm, think clea ... Show More
1h 6m
Sep 2024
Ep 78. How Retroactive Jealousy Can Ruin Relationships
<p>Have you ever felt a twinge of jealousy, discomfort, or insecurity when thinking about your partner's past relationships? If so, you may be experiencing retroactive jealousy, a debilitating but also common condition that ruins many relationships. Dealing with retroactive ... Show More
28m 3s
May 2022
73: Overcoming Jealousy & Stalking His Ex
<p>U jelly? Whether we admit to it or not, we all know what jealousy feels like. Whether it be relationship jealousy, always comparing yourself to others, or feeling like you are in competition with everyone around you, this episode candidly covers it all.</p>
<p>We talk about re ... Show More
1h 13m
Mar 2024
174. Retroactive jealousy
<p>Feeling jealous over our partners past can feel highly irrational, but its still a feeling many of us have and contributes to a lot of obsessive and unhealthy behaviours like stalking their exes, asking intrusive questions, starting arguments in hopes of getting the reassuranc ... Show More
40m 31s
Sep 2023
#106: Retroactive Jealousy: Navigating Discomfort With Our Partner's Past
<p>Retroactive jealousy is one that focuses on the past, fixating on other partners or stages in your partner's lives and being threatened by it. In today’s conversation, I’ll dive into how such jealousy stirs immense stress, but more importantly, we share insights into buil ... Show More
16m 19s
Dec 2022
49: 3 tips to overcome jealousy
In this episode, I cover what causes jealousy in partnership, why it isn't something to get rid of, and how to transform it into a gift rather than a hindrance to your relationship. Both Feet In is my community where you can access my core relationship anxiety relief curriculum, ... Show More
50m 28s
Apr 2024
Feeling Insecure About Their Ex? WATCH THIS | Rewind
<p>Have you ever felt jealous about your ex’s previous partners? In the age of social media, it’s easier than ever to see our partner’s history and compare ourselves to our ex’s history.</p><p>In this episode, we talk about the problem of this “retroactive jealousy”, how it affec ... Show More
12m 2s