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Sep 2022
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The First Step to Repairing Trust in Any...

Impact Theory
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Do you struggle with trust issues? Did your last relationship scar you from ever trusting or putting yourself out there again? On this episode of Relationship Theory, Lisa and Tom Bilyeu sit down to discuss such matters and more as they explore how to overcome your lingering trust issues so that you can start to put yourself out there again and find love. They discuss what may be causing your trust issues, why finding love requires being vulnerable, why the little things in a relationship build trust, and how to set rules in your relationship to maintain trust for years to come.


SHOW NOTES:

Trust | Tom and Lisa discuss how to overcome your own trust issues. [0:28]

Love | Lisa and Tom recall a time in their relationship when they first said, “I love you.” [5:26]

Be Willing | Tom and Lisa discuss why you have to be willing to get hurt again. [6:37]

Divorce | Tom and Lisa discuss why even saying the ‘D word’ is difficult for them. [8:08]

Little Things | Lisa and Tom discuss how the little things that build trust. [12:25]

Rules | Tom and Lisa discuss how to know what rules to set in a relationship. [13:50]


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