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Sep 2022
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185 | Sensation & Sploshing: James’ Sex ...

Wyoh Lee
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“What if I wanna play with my food?” James’ (56 bi-curious submissive w dude who has been married for over 25 years) love of sploshing illustrates *exactly* why learning from primary sources is so awesome. He’s happily 25-years vanilla married and shares so many sex stories about how he’s becoming more active at his local swinger’s club to take care of his kinky parts. He shares his sploshing origin stories, and shares *excellent* details about the messes he’s made and the foods he’s played with, including: eggs, banana, maple syrup, Big Macs (guess where he put them!!!!), beans (guess where he squished them!!!), instant mashed potatoes (guess what the best splosh temp is!), melted ice cream, cakes, cupcakes, pies (pumpkin, chocolate cream, coconut cream), peanut butter and chocolate sauce, plus his current cake fantasy. James considers himself submissive, “available to pleasure others,” and talks about how his appreciation for being told what to do turned into a golden shower (or golden splash?) session, plus the other hot stuff his play Domme has done (like tie him to a chair, totally trash him, and then lay him down, put a cake on his…well, just listen). He has plenty of non-splash details too, and is a sensual lover who really loves touch. He shares swingers club play details that include anal fisting, group play in private rooms, his first cocksplorations, dual nipple sucking, specifics of the butt stuff he likes, more hot Dommes, and a really fun, hot ending to a dress-up night. He teaches Wyoh how easy it can be to be in a dynamic-less, vanilla place of pleasure, shares leash fantasies, glory hole experiences, how important connection is to him, and his only real sexual fear? Running out of new things to explore.

 

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