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Jun 2022
56m 13s

I'm Single, You're a Father w/ Alex Papi...

Violet Benson
About this episode

What’s your craziest hookup story? And don’t leave out the juicy (or gross) details!

It’s probably one that involves a first date, dinner, alcohol, and some intimate moments that are either hilariously funny or morbidly disastrous. Whatever your story is, I don’t think it can even come close to the one you’re about to hear today. What about the time your boyfriend cheated on you, only for the girl he cheated with to end up pregnant? Today we’re talking about the things that should definitely be told to a therapist, but are honestly way funnier to tell on this podcast. 

Today, we have Alex Papiccio! Alex is a social media personality, a comedic soul, a recurring guest, and one of Violet’s dearest friends. With their already developed chemistry, Violet and Alex dive straight into their hilarious hookup stories, Alex’s extremely hot boyfriend how their s*xual activities have significantly changed after living together, tips on how you can score a sugar (or splenda!) daddy, and why women need to stop doing “wifey” duties when they only have the “girlfriend” title. I know that one may have stung a bit, but it’s a reality check that we ALL need to hear sometimes. This episode is jam packed and will have you in tears - happy tears that is! Tune in now, besties! 


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What to Listen For:

  • 00:00 Introduction
  • 01:12 “My boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me…”
  • 10:28 Have you gotten an STD?
  • 12:57 Tips on how to score a Splenda Daddy
  • 19:48 Do you still get ready from d*ck appointment?
  • 25:21 Setting boundaries for your alone time
  • 29:26 Are you scared?
  • 31:43 What’s your craziest hookup story?
  • 45:12 Do you need sex toys or not?
  • 48:26 What’s a pillow princess?
  • 53:04 Doing wifey duties when you’re not even the girlfriend
  • 59:39 What do you think about female best friends?
  • 01:07:00 Work on your best self first 


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