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Sep 2022
51m 33s

059: Motherhood, Dating and Trusting You...

KELLEY BODE
About this episode

https://www.kelleymbode.com/offers/cANQWuAL/checkout We’re diving into motherhood, womanhood and all things personal growth this week as I chat with a former Dating for Love student of mine, Caitlin Lili! Caitlin since taking my course and completely transforming her life is now a coach who helps other moms like herself embody their radiance and trust their inner knowing, something she used to really struggle with. Caitlin shares what she learned from the program and how much it has impacted her relationships with men, all the way down to accepting help and compliments on the street and recognizing that all men really want to do is love us and shower us with affection. Who wouldn’t want to get in on a piece of that! She also tells me how her life took a major perspective shift by looking at her requirements for men and dating by turning them into feelings instead and dating outside of her usual preferences. She learned sooo much from just this and I can’t wait for you to hear all about it!

 

Caitlin and I also discuss the relationship between motherhood and womanhood and how we should never be ashamed to claim our sexual needs and wants as a woman just because we’re mothers. In the wise words of Caitlin “being a mom doesn't mean you don't wanna be f*cked!”. We reclaiming sexuality, freedom and trusting your inner knowing all while being the best mother you can be in this one, so moms, this one’s for you!

WHAT ELSE WE’RE TALKING ABOUT:

 

  • All of the incredible knowledge and tools Caitlin gained from my Dating for Love course!
  • Unloading her fear of men and learning to accept and receive their attention
  • Recognizing that love doesn’t always have to be an instant passionate attraction but that love can grow over time into something really beautiful and long-lasting
  • That regardless of pushback, you should never feel stifled or put down for talking about YOUR truth. It’s yours, you can do whatever you want with it
  • How Caitlin claimed her desires by recognizing that her persona as a mother and as a woman were completely separate
  • That putting your needs first doesn’t mean you’re a bad mom and will actually improve your relationship with your kids
  • Throwing away the idea that men are annoying to ask for sex and intimacy. Isn’t that what we all want as women anyway?
  • How since Caitlin started trusting her inner knowing more her capacity to hold sensations in her body became so much bigger
  • Life doesn’t stop after having children!

Connect with Caitlin:

 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamcaitlinlili/

Connect with me:

 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelleymbode

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelley.bode.90 

Twitter: https://twitter.com/kelleybode

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